Angie | Sailing For The Son

Gardens and Gardeners

As often seems to happen to me, the plans I make for the day don’t always go exactly as scheduled. This week, in Grand Bahama, Bill and I, together with our buddy boaters John and Michele and John’s brother Darrell, experienced a bit of authentic Bahamian hospitality that I don’t think any of us expected.

A popular tourist destination here is Garden of the Groves, a nature walk highlighting the beauty of the island. Planning to make a day of it, we headed out walking towards the bus stop. Half way to the stop the bus passed us, stopped, turned around, and came back to pick us up. That should have been the first clue that we weren’t going on a typical bus ride. At least not a typical American bus ride.

Chatty, as usual, Michele struck up a conversation with our bus driver, Lady J. Michele discovered that she and Lady J have a mutual appreciation for gardening. I’m not really sure how this happened, but the next thing I knew, we were pulling into Lady J’s driveway. The driveway at her house! Then Michele excitedly announced that Lady J is going to show us her backyard garden!

I just can’t see that this would ever happen in the States. However, in Grand Bahama, it somehow seemed to fit right in. And Michele was almost giddy! Lady J was very methodical and Michele was positively enthralled as they made their way around the garden. Some plants we recognized-banana trees, palm trees, herbs-but many were foreign to us.

One tree was full of a fruit none of us recognized. Lady J explained that this is a sapodilla tree and that the fruit is very good. Although it wasn’t yet ripe, Lady J picked us a few and explained that when they ripen we can eat them like an apple. I’m not a very adventurous eater, but I’ll give it a try!

Following the private tour, Lady J did drive us to the Garden of the Groves. The garden is beautiful-great trails, waterfalls, birds, turtles, butterflies and more.

Reflecting on the day, I believe it wasn’t either of the gardens that were the most memorable- it was the gardeners-Lady J and Michele forming an easy kinship over a shared loved of God’s creation.

I’m going to remember that.

Back to the Bahamas!

The 2022-2023 cruising season has begun. Bill and I are currently on S/V Liberty in Lake Worth (West Palm Beach, Florida) awaiting a good weather window to cross the Gulf Stream. We are buddy boating with our new friends John and Michelle Schultz on S/V Yes My Dear.

This summer was particularly eventful starting with the high school graduation of our first grandchild! We’re so proud of you, Ella!

My mom, Mary, turned 80 this year. She is so beautiful. The party we hosted included several of her children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, lots of nieces and nephews, and even 3 of her high school classmates! At her request, we held the party in my cousin’s barn. My mom is a farm girl at heart.

My mom, daughters, granddaughters and me

A surprise event this year was the engagement and covenant marriage of our daughter, Becky, to Wyatt Kipp! There is no doubt that God had a hand in bringing these two believers together, and we’re excited to see what He has planned for them.

Bill and I are proud of our son, Kristian, who is serving in the United States Army. He spent just over a year on an unaccompanied overseas tour, and has now returned safely (and joyously!) to his wife, Alejandra. They will be relocating to Texas this month for Kristian’s next assignment.

This cruising season we are returning to the Bahamas! We spent the last two seasons enjoying the Florida Keys, but with the Covid pandemic, together with it’s travel hassles and restrictions, waning we’re ready to head to the “Bahamian Blue” waters again. Bahamian Blue is the color my friend Kelly and I dubbed the unique beautiful blue found only in the waters of the Bahamas.

In the next few days we will cross the Gulf Stream (my first time!) and head toward West End, Grand Bahama. We will check in with Bahamian customs and immigration authorities to obtain our cruising permit, then head to Ocean Reef Resort and Marina oceanreefresortmarina.com . We heard great things about this marina from our friends Dave and Linda Olson on M/V Entrusted.

Our trusty travel buddies, Steve and Susan Holdaway, and Tim and Kelly Will, will be flying in to join us for some exciting adventures this season. New this year, Bill’s sister and brother-in-law, Ann and Gary Slifka, will be joining us for a bit. Be sure to check back for stories and pictures! I’m practically giddy just anticipating watching Susan pet the stingrays at Sandy Cay. According to her husband, Susan loves to be stretched out of her comfort zone, and I’m pretty sure this will be a bit outside her typical routine!

It’s Not a Choice

“Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you”. Exodus 20:12

Hmmm…truly one of God’s Top Ten. Top five , even. I love lists-I’m convinced that I’d never get anything done if it wasn’t on a list.

What does it even mean to honor someone? Honoring someone means something like holding that person in high regard; to cherish. Sadly, ‘honor’, ‘high regard’, and ‘cherish’ aren’t words Americans tend to use in our everyday speech. I wonder why.

2 Timothy 3:16-17 reminds me that all Scripture is God-breathed and useful for training in righteousness. Ouch! ‘training in righteousness’-there’s a figure of speech I almost never think about! So, I guess Timothy is telling me that I can’t simply disregard Exodus because it seems physically or emotionally difficult.

It’s no wonder we find it so hard to honor our parents (and all people in positions of authority, by the way). But that’s the thing about Scripture, God doesn’t ask us to like it, or even to actually understand every word of it. However, as Christians, we are expected to submit to God’s authority in our lives, and to lean on the power of the Holy Spirit to give us strength when we don’t have the will.

Busyness with my career, my family, my friends, my pets, my vacations, my tv shows, my volunteer activities, my need to rest and relax. These are all great reasons not to hold placing my mother’s needs into a place of high importance. Or at least they sound like it. To me. To my selfish, deaf, human ears. But when I hold them up against God’s Word, they all fade pretty quickly. And sink in the quicksand I so often find myself stuck in.

So today, I choose to cherish my mother. I’m going to brush her hair because I know she loves it. I’m going to paint her fingernails because she has beautiful hands. I’m going to place her in a wheelchair and take her outside to see the birds, and hopefully a bunny. I’m going to sing old hymns and patriotic songs out loud with her because she loves the old songs and she remembers the words. I’m going to ask her to tell me about her parents and what it was like growing up on a farm. And I’m going to bring her ice cream because we all need ice cream.

What am I going to chose tomorrow? Well, tomorrow is not here yet, and there is that whole thing about tomorrow having troubles of it’s own…so today I will follow Jesus with a grateful heart, and I’ll leave tomorrow to itself until then.

Who are you cherishing today?

Fun at Summer Sailing Camp 2022

Our oldest grandson, Harry, joined us in Jacksonville, Florida, for a week of Summer Sailing camp in June 2022. A full week jam packed full of fun!

My husband and I love each other much, and we have loads of fun-filled adventures together, but I’m telling you, our boat is filled to the top with laughter when Harry is here.

Harry often asks me about my volunteer activities, and because he needs to complete three significant service projects this summer for Cub Scouts, we started our week at The Nest, A Women’s Center. It happened to be National Donut Day, so Harry and I showed up with donuts. When seeing the donuts, Megan said that Harry is welcome at The Nest any day! Lisa and Megan answered Harry’s many questions about The Nest. Then Harry and I then spent two hours cleaning the sign by the road and sweeping, mopping and arranging the classroom. The Nest was very appreciative of Harry’s service and even featured him on their Facebook page.

We bought a dinghy and outboard a few months ago (which is no easy feat during Covid) and Harry was very much looking forward to learning how to drive it. Harry is tall for seven, even so, starting and steering the nine foot inflatable dinghy was a stretch for him, but he did it! And he loved it!

On the second day of dinghy lessons, Harry picked me up and drove us to the park! The combined look of seriousness, accomplishment, and fun really looks handsome on my grandson.

Harry has been studying sailing with Grandpa Bill for several years now, but this summer he chose to learn and practice how to use the radio (and call the bridge tender to open the bridge), anchoring, weighing anchor (after lunch onboard) and continuing to perfect his driving skills.

We all love the beach, so we spent one day at Huguenot Beach. Harry loves to use the stand up paddleboard to surf on the waves with grandpa, and I love to watch and listen to them laughing. Harry said this was the most fun activity of the week. Watching him concentrate on surfing, hearing him laugh whether he stands or falls, and then seeing him going back for more, was my most fun!

Harry also spent time playing chess, playing cards, learning to cook on the propane stove (“best rice ever”), practicing snorkeling in the pool (and learning to dive down with the snorkel), learning to raise a flag on the boat, and walking the docks every morning with grandpa greeting the neighbors and talking about boats.

To wrap up the week, we met up with the rest of the family at Great Wolf Lodge near Atlanta, Georgia. We all had a very wet, wild, and exhausting time!

Harry earned a Certificate of Completion with Exemplary Performance!

We are so looking forward to the next sailing camp, which will include sailing a Hobie Wave and more math problems (because Harry requested them both)!

Protected: Summer Sailing Camp 2022

Happy Easter

All Things are Possible

In April 2017, our friends, Steve and Susan, joined us on a sailing adventure in the British Virgin Islands. Susan had never been on a sailing trip, but as her husband is fond of saying, “Susan likes to be pushed out of her comfort zone.”
As I recall, on our first night Susan said, “I can’t believe we signed up for 8 days of this.” Even on calm water I couldn’t get Susan out of the safety of the cockpit.

Before the end of that trip; however, Susan was lamenting, “I can’t believe we only signed up for 8 days of this.” We had so much fun kayaking together looking for sea turtles (and ice cream). Susan whimpered just a bit when we kayaked into a sea cave, but I could barely hear her, what with all the waves crashing into the rocks and everything.

March 2019 found us sailing together again, this time in the Bahamas. Steve and Susan are so much fun to travel with-they are pretty much game for anything, and this time Susan was loving, loving, loving sitting on the bow of the boat with me. I can’t post a picture of that because we stayed up there so long that we burnt to a crisp (and, you know, I really only want to post flattering pictures of us ladies).

Steve and Susan joined us at Bill Baggs Cape Florida State Park in January 2021. The Covid 19 overseas travel restrictions simply made another Bahamas trip too much to think about. As it turns out, we enjoy Florida every bit as much and actually see more sea life here. (Just don’t ask Susan how close she likes to get to giant lizards and manatee.) By the way, Susan and I are rule followers, but our husbands maybe not so much…

We even had Steve and Susan out on the Atlantic Ocean!

Still on Covid 19 travel restrictions, we opted to sail to Key West in 2022. Susan, I’m so impressed with you-look at you totally comfortable on the boat, in the dinghy, and even shopping! Ok, so you’ve always been comfortable shopping, but we do it so well together that I had to mention it (and don’t we look fabulous in those hats?).

Susan and I have been friends for nearly 25 years. Our first trips together were women’s conferences with our church and Girl Scout trips with our youngest daughters. From crafts and smores to sailing and kayaking, we have grown a lot together. I love to tease Susan, but truth be told, I love her dearly and count her as a gift from God. I often like to say that it’s me stretching Susan, and as far as nautical adventures go that might be true. But, spiritually (you know-the things of first importance), Susan is the guide and I have always been the student. Thank you, Susan, and I can’t wait to see what’s next! Just remember, “All things are possible for one who believes.” Mark 9:23.

Who is your Jan?

Jan and I have been friends for going on 25 years now-which is shocking because we barely act like we’re out of our teens! Jan makes me laugh, and I generously return the favor as often as I can. My husband, Bill, and I are blessed to be able to travel a lot, as we are retired. However, for most of our friends and family, we know their vacation time is limited and we are so, so excited when they choose to spend their free time with us!

Jan and her husband, Frank, joined us in Key West, Florida, in January 2022. it was a quick trip for them, but so much fun.

During an afternoon sail, we even had Frank at the helm. I don’t think his prior military experience included any time in the Navy, and I had to take several pictures before I caught him smiling, but he did great! Jan? She chickened out, but she chickened out in the classic, beautiful Key West chicken way!

I’d go just about anywhere with Jan. We’d be laughing, and I’d be scared, but I’d be going. (Ask me sometime about our terrifying whitewater rafting trip!) Everyone needs a Jan in their lives, who is yours?

Author: Angie